بارك الله فيكم اختا الكريمة جعله الله تعالى في ميزان حسناتكم


Islam has given women rights did not see it in the face of the earth we have
Islam has ordered the man care
Women and spending, and ensure women from birth to death
Honoring her daughter and sister and a wife and mother
Islam did not give the opportunity to beg or trade her body as in the West now
Now, when women do not find the money necessary for living in the West and America, the money goes to trade with all even have her body
But Islam protects women from this and ensured the financial rights and all rights pertaining to women from birth to death
For further prevention of status and honor of women in Islam, please visit this topic, my greetings to you

Women in Islam: Oppression or Liberation
http://www.islamreligion.com/articles/1469/

كان هذا ردى :
Peace be upon you my sister
I apologize for the delay
First, as I said earlier
Islam, honored women

For the Veil:
Answer here
http://www.thedeenshow.com/nonmuslims.php?id=179
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Medical benefits of female circumcision
Mentioning some of these benefits, Dr. Haamid al-Ghawaabi says:
The secretions of the labia minora accumulate in uncircumcised women and turn rancid, so they develop an unpleasant odour which may lead to infections of the vagina or urethra. I have seen many cases of sickness caused by the lack of circumcision.
Circumcision reduces excessive sensitivity of the clitoris which may cause it to increase in size to 3 centimeters when aroused, which is very annoying to the husband, especially at the time of intercourse.
Another benefit of circumcision is that it prevents stimulation of the clitoris which makes it grow large in such a manner that it causes pain.
Circumcision prevents spasms of the clitoris which are a kind of inflammation.
Circumcision reduces excessive sexual desire.
Then Dr al-Ghawaabi refutes those who claim that female circumcision leads to frigidity by noting:
Frigidity has many causes, and this claim is not based on any sound statistics comparing circumcised women with uncircumcised women, except in the case of Pharaonic circumcision which is where the clitoris is excised completely. This does in fact lead to frigidity but it is contrary to the kind of circumcision enjoined by the Prophet of mercy (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) when he said: "Do not destroy" ie, do not uproot or excise. This alone is evidence that speaks for itself, because medicine at that time knew very little about this sensitive organ (the clitoris) and its nerves.
From Liwa 'al-Islam magazine, issue 8 and 10; article entitled Khitaan al-Banaat (circumcision of girls).
The female gynaecologist Sitt al-Banaat Khaalid says in an article entitled Khitaan al-Banaat Ru'yah Sihhiyyah (Female circumcision from a health point of view):
For us in the Muslim world female circumcision is, above all else, obedience to Islam, which means acting in accordance with the fitrah and following the Sunnah which encourages it. We all know the dimensions of Islam, and that everything in it must be good in all aspects, including health aspects. If the benefits are not apparent now, they will become known in the future, as has happened with regard to male circumcision - the world now knows its benefits and it has become widespread among all nations despite the opposition of some groups.
Then she mentioned some of the health benefits of female circumcision and said:
It takes away excessive libido from women
It prevents unpleasant odours which result from foul secretions beneath the prepuce.
It reduces the incidence of urinary tract infections
It reduces the incidence of infections of the reproductive system.
In the book on Traditions that affect the health of women and children, which was published by the World Health Organization in 1979 it says:
With regard to the type of female circumcision which involves removal of the prepuce of the clitoris, which is similar to male circumcision, no harmful health effects have been noted.

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The health benefits:

Dr. Muhammad 'Ali al-Baar (a member of the Royal College of Surgeons in the UK and a consultant to the Islamic Medicine department of the King Fahd Centre for Medical Research in the King Abdul Aziz University in Jeddah) says in his book al-Khitaan (Circumcision):

"Circumcision of newborn boys (ie, within the first month of life) brings numerous health benefits, including:
1 - Protection against local infection in the penis, which may result from the presence of the foreskin, causing tightening of the foreskin, which may lead to retention of urine or infections of the glans (tip) of the penis - which require circumcision in order to treat these problems. In chronic cases, the child may be exposed to numerous diseases in the future, the most serious of which is cancer of the penis.
2 - Infections of the urethra. Many studies have proven that uncircumcised boys are more exposed to infection of the urethra. In some studies the rate was 39 times more among uncircumcised boys. In other studies the rate was ten times more. Other studies showed that 95% of children who suffered from infections of the urethra were uncircumcised, whereas the rate among circumcised children did not exceed 5%.
In children, infection of the urethra is serious in some cases. In the study by Wisewell on 88 children who suffered infections of the urethra, in 36% of them, the same bacteria was found in the blood also. Three of them contracted meningitis, and two suffered renal failure. Two others died as a result of the spread of the micro-organisms throughout the body.
3 - Protection against cancer of the penis: the studies agree that cancer of the penis is almost non-existent among circumcised men, whereas the rate among uncircumcised men is not insignificant. In the US the rate of penile cancer among circumcised men is zero, whilst among uncircumcised men it is 2.2 in every 100,000 of the uncircumcised population. As most of the inhabitants of the US are circumcised, the cases of this cancer there are between 750 and 1000 per year. If the population were not circumcised, the number of cases would reach 3000. In countries where boys are not circumcised, such as China, Uganda and Puerto Rico, penile cancer represents between 12-22% of all cancers found in men; this is a very high percentage.
4 - Sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). Researchers found that the STDs which are transmitted via sexual contact (usually because of fornication / adultery and homosexuality) spread more among those who are not circumcised, especially herpes, soft chancres, syphilis, candida, gonorrhea and genital warts.
There are numerous modern studies which confirm that circumcision reduces the possibility of contracting AIDS when compared to their uncircumcised counterparts. But that does not rule out the possibility of a circumcised man contracting AIDS as the result of sexual contact with a person who has AIDS. Circumcision is not a protection against it, and there is no real way of protecting oneself against the many sexually transmitted diseases apart from avoiding fornication / adultery, promiscuity, homosexuality and other repugnant practices. (From this we can see the wisdom of Islamic sharee'ah in forbidding fornication / adultery and homosexuality).
5 - Protection of wives against cervical cancer. Researchers have noted that the wives of circumcised men have less risk of getting cervical cancer than the wives of uncircumcised men.
From al-Khitaan, p. 76, by Dr. Muhammad al-Baar.
And Allaah knows best.
Reference: Professor Wisewell, published in the American Family Doctor Magazine, issue no. 41, 1991 CE.




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The punishment of Stoning for those who commit adultery is very cruel
Response
According to the Islamic Law (Shariah) in case of adultery (extramarital relationship), the adulterer and the adulteress will be stoned to death by the decree of the Court. However, if virgins commit fornication then the punishment is 100 lashes.
However, before any punishment is carried out, Islam requires that the evidence is conclusively established. Adultery and fornication have to be proven by four eyewitnesses who have seen the actual sexual intercourse or by the confession of the delinquents themselves. Pregnancy is not enough evidence. All Muslim Scholars (except Malik only) do not recognized pregnancy as enough evidence to carry out the punishment (100 lashes or stoning) because the woman might have been raped. Therefore if the woman claims to be raped, she will not be punished.
If a person accuses a woman or a man of committing illegal sexual intercourse, then the accuser has to bring four eyewitnesses who have seen the actual sexual intercourse. If not, the accuser will receive eighty lashes and his testimony will be rejected forever:
And those who accuse chaste women, and produce not four witnesses, FLOG THEM (THE ACCUSERS) WITH EIGHTY STRIPES AND REJECT THEIR TESTIMONY FOREVER. (Quran, 24:4)
Verily, those who accuse chaste, believing women, who never even think of anything touching their chastity, are cursed in this life and in the Hereafter, and for them will be great torment. (Quran, 24:23)
The punishment for adultery and fornication is intended to deter from committing these ugly shameful deeds. This punishment is for jeopardizing the whole community as adultery spreads diseases, destroys the family, and harms the individual and the entire society.
It should be emphasized that, the Bible also commands the killing of the adulterer and the adulteress. Therefore, criticizing this punishment implies criticizing the Bible, and this should not be acceptable to any true Jew or Christian!
According to the judgment of the Bible, if a man accuses his wife of not being a virgin, the wife's father and mother have to bring proof that she was a virgin, otherwise, the wife will be STONED TO DEATH! THE WIFE'S TESTIMONY CARRIES NO WEIGHT! :
If a man takes a wife and, after lying with her, dislikes her and slanders her and gives her a bad name, saying, "I married this woman, but when I approached her, I DID NOT FIND PROOF OF HER VIRGINITY," then the GIRL'S FATHER AND MOTHER SHALL BRING PROOF that she was a virgin to the town elders at the gate ... Then her parents shall DISPLAY THE CLOTH before the elders of the town ... If, however, the charge is true and no proof of the girl's virginity can be found, she shall be brought to the door of her father's house and there the men of her town SHALL STONE HER TO DEATH ... (Deuteronomy 22:13-21)
The following is for those who do not believe in the Bible and the Quran:
According to the United Nations, AIDS will kill 70 million people over the next 20 years, unless efforts are made to curb the disease!
More than 40 million people worldwide have AIDS or are infected with HIV, the virus that causes the disease, up from 34 million two years ago, and infection rates are climbing, said the latest report from UNAIDS, the agency that coordinates UN AIDS programs.
AIDS threatens to wipe out a generation in Africa and destabilize the whole continent, warns the report!
AIDS killed a record 3 million people last year - 2.2 MILLION IN AFRICA ALONE - and HIV infected another 5 million worldwide. The disease, which has killed 20 million since its discovery in 1981, has so far created 14 million orphans. Three million of the 40 million people now infected are children under 15 years of age. The world must spend $ 7 billion to $ 10 billion a year by 2005 to tackle AIDS!
· Furthermore, in the United States, MORE THAN 65 MILLION PEOPLE are currently living with an incurable sexually transmitted disease (STD).
http://www.cdc.gov/nchstp/od/news/RevBrochure1pdfintro.htm
These dreadful consequences of promiscuous sexual relationships and deviant sexual practices were foretold by Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) about 1400 years ago. The Prophet, peace and blessings of God be upon him, said,
"If lewdness exists among people and then appears as a common and open practice, plagues and new diseases which did not exist before will spread among them." [Ibn Maajah, Al-Hakim]
It is really shocking that the Western people think that it is unfair to kill the person who commits adultery, while they believe that innocent child born of adultery can be killed (aborted)
And consequently over HALF A MILLION TEENAGERS a year in America, choose to murder (or abort) their children.
These unfortunate children are killed in the wombs of their mothers and their mutilated corpses are discarded like garbage.
About 1.3 million abortions take place in America every year. From 1973 through 1996, more than 34 million legal abortions occurred in America!! 34 MILLION INNOCENT CHILDREN WERE KILLED TO SATISFY WESTERN SEXUAL MANIA!!!
It is really astonishing that these children are killed for the adultery committed by their parents. ISN'T THIS THE HEIGHT OF INHUMANITY AND HARSHNESS!
"They are losers who have killed their children foolishly, without knowledge ...
They have indeed gone astray and were not guided. "(Quran 6:140)
Do they kill them because they cannot defend themselves and cannot talk, then on the Day of Judgment they will talk and complain to God!
That is your democracy!! Since the fetus cannot talk and defend itself you kill it. How barbaric!!!
Western Democracy is two wolves and a lamb voting on what to have for lunch.
Western Democracy is two human wolves and a fetus of their adultery voting on who should be killed for committing this sin!!!
• A survey by the National Opinion Research Center (University of Chicago) found that 25 percent of men had been unfaithful. (Joannie Schrof, "Adultery in America," US News and World Report, 31 Aug. 1998, 31.)
• An article in a 1997 issue of Newsweek magazine noted that various surveys suggest that as many as 30 percent of male Protestant ministers have had sexual relationships with women other than their wives. (Kenneth Woodward, "Sex, Morality and the Protestant Minister," Newsweek (28 July 1997), 62.
Some of those who oppose stoning are wicked people who want to exploit women, yet with no guarantees, no rights or security, financial or emotional. They want women to be like unpaid prostitutes to serve them as girlfriends. And should they become pregnant, it is their burden alone and they will have to choose whether to struggle with the responsibility for the upbringing of these illegitimate children or to have an abortion. In these permissive societies the woman is regarded as no more than a sex object and a commodity to be used for public consumption.
If this Islamic Law is applied and one or two adulterers or adulteresses are killed, it will deter these wicked people and millions of other people men and women from committing adultery. Therefore, it will deter them from exploiting women because if they are caught, they will be stoned to death. Furthermore, it will deter women from committing adultery with these wicked people and consequently it will be very difficult for these wicked people to find prostitutes or women who are willing to commit adultery.
Conclusion
In severe cases of Gangrene, doctors decide to amputate the affected part of the body to rescue the rest of the body. Is this unjust or harsh!
No!
Because the amputation of the affected part of the body is less harmful than leaving the whole body to die!
Likewise, the death of the person who commits adultery is less harmful than the terrible consequences of the spread of adultery which were explained above
In Botswana, 39 percent of adults are infected with HIV or AIDS. Because of AIDS, life expectancy in Botswana has dropped below 40.
Suppose the Islamic Law is implemented in these countries. Every woman wears the Islamic hijab and men and women do not mix freely! After this if any one commits adultery, they get capital punishment, and suppose that only 2 or 3 adulterers or adulteresses are killed publicly. The question is, will AIDS and Other STDs increase, will they remain the same or will they decrease? Without doubt they will decrease dramatically and consequently millions of innocent lives will be saved. Islamic Law gets results. Islam has Practical Solutions for the Problems of Mankind. Perhaps these people oppose stoning because they want to get rid of the whole population of Africa. Maybe they want the curse of AIDS to wipe out all those helpless Africans
Islam is the best way of life because its teachings are not just pieces of advice but practical solutions for the problems of humans. Islamic teachings achieve fruitful results. Islam managed to minimize such evils.
When we consider all the facts, the greatness and wisdom of God's Law appear
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For honor of wife:
As a Wife:
(1) Marriage in Islam is based on mutual peace, love, and compassion, and not just the mere satisfying of human sexual desire. Among the most impressive verses in the Quran about marriage is the following:

"And of His signs is: that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought. "(Quran 30:21, see also 42:11 and 2:228)

(2) The female has the right to accept or reject marriage proposals. According to the Islamic Law, women cannot be forced to marry anyone without their consent.

(3) The husband is responsible for the maintenance, protection, and overall leadership of the family, within the framework of consultation (see the Quran 2:233) and kindness (see the Quran 4:19). The mutuality and complementary nature of the role of husband and wife does not mean subservience by either party to the other. The Prophet Muhammad instructed Muslims regarding women: "I commend you to be good to women." And "The best among you are those who are best to their wives." The Quran urges husbands to be kind and considerate to their wives, even if a wife falls out of favor with her husband or disinclination for her arises within him:

"... And live with them in kindness. For if you dislike them, perhaps you dislike a thing and God makes therein much good. "(Quran 4:19)

It also outlawed the Arabian practice before Islam whereby the stepson of the deceased father was allowed to take possession of his father's widow (s) (inherit them) as if they were part of the estate of the deceased (see the Quran 4:19) .

(4) Should marital disputes arise, the Quran encourages couples to resolve them privately in a spirit of fairness and goodness. Indeed, the Quran outlines an enlightened step and wise approach for the husband and wife to resolve persistent conflict in their marital life. In the event that dispute cannot be resolved equitably between husband and wife, the Quran prescribes mediation between the parties through family intervention on behalf of both spouses (see the Quran 4:35).

(5) Divorce is a last resort, permissible but not encouraged, for the Quran esteems the preservation of faith and the individual's right-male and female alike-to felicity. Forms of marriage dissolution include an enactment based upon mutual agreement, the husband's initiative, the wife's initiative (if part of her marital contract), the court's decision on a wife's initiative (for a legitimate reason), and the wife's initiative without a cause, provided that she returns her marital gift to her husband. When the continuation of the marriage relationship is impossible for any reason, men are still taught to seek a gracious end for it. The Quran states about such cases:

"And when you divorce women and they have fulfilled their term (ie waiting period), either keep them in kindness or release them in kindness, and do not keep them, intending harm, to transgress (against them)." (Quran 2: 231, see also 2:229 and 33:49)

(6) Associating polygyny with Islam, as if it was introduced by it or is the norm according to its teachings, is one of the most persistent myths perpetuated in Western literature and media. Polygyny existed in almost all nations and was even sanctioned by Judaism and Christianity until recent centuries. Islam did not outlaw polygyny, as did many peoples and religious communities; rather, it regulated and restricted it. It is not required but simply permitted with conditions (see the Quran 4:3). Spirit of law, including timing of revelation, is to deal with individual and collective contingencies that may arise from time to time (eg imbalances between the number of males and females created by wars) and to provide a moral, practical, and humane solution for the problems of widows and orphans.

Peace be upon you my sister

و لكن للاسف هى دائما تلقى الشبهات و هرسل تعليقها على

ردها هو الاول و الثانى عضو اخر :
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FEMALE CIRCUMCISION -- There is so much error in what you posted here I hardly know where to begin. For one thing, any "health benefits" imagined about female circumcision are just that -- imagined. A stimulated clitoris is never "painful" no matter how big it gets. Quite the contrary. It can be an instrument of immense pleasure which, I suspect, is Islam's true objection to it (why should sex be any fun for women?) Anyway, it never grows big enough to "annoy" anybody's husband. Just ask the American, European, Asian, and Latino husbands about that. As for any "rancid" odors, daily bathing and good personal hygiene are the key. Of course if you want to talk about "rancid" odors, semen is about the most rancid, foul-smelling substance I've ever encountered. So what's the cure for that?

STONING -- Execution has never been a reliable deterrent to criminal or immoral activity. If people want to do something, they're going to do it regardless of the consequences. And I suspect the Muslim world has as much promiscuity as the Western world but is much better at hiding it.

MARRIAGE -- Here I don't see anything remarkable. Western marriages have most of what you posted here (e.g. clergy, marriage counselors, divorce lawyers, and laws concerning "community property") with the exception of polygyny.

Peace to you also.

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riglin wrote today at 4:16 AM
It all boils down to pointing at the Creator's mistakes in his creations. Now every believers needs to circumcise. You just added this thought to my mind and strengthen my acknowledgment that a Creator does not exist.

Muslims still caught for committing adultery are very ignorant of their own religion. There are so many 'religious ways' to do it. It's so easy to divorce a wife by saying 'talak' 3 times, or marry up to another three more. Then there is nikah al-mut'ah (temporary marriage) which can last a little as one hour and there are no requirements of having a witness, a written contract or permission from authorities.

I've learned all this from ex-Muslims at http://anonymouse.org/cgi-bin/anon-www.cgi/http://www.faithfreedom.org




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riglin wrote today at 5:56 AM
Eyearing,

The punishment of stoning for those who commit adultery does not justify anything accept promoting violence.

http://anonymouse.org/cgi-bin/anon-www.cgi/http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/worldnews/article-1235763/Pictured-Islamic-militants-stone-man-death-adultery-Somalia-villagers-forced-watch.html#ixzz0Zy70oQQX

""If lewdness exists among people and then appears as a common and open practice, plagues and new diseases which did not exist before will spread among them." [Ibn Maajah, Al-Hakim]"

That's a lame statement. What about plagues and new diseases which have no connection with sex? Looks like the Creator is having fun by creating new diseases of any kind through out the times. What is the fun for creating cancer that affects everyone? Isn't there Judgment Day for the believers?

المساعده مع من يعتنقون البوذيه

كان هذا ردى :
Peace be upon you my sister
I apologize for the delay
First, as I said earlier
Islam, honored women

For the Veil:
Answer here
http://www.thedeenshow.com/nonmuslims.php?id=179
================================================== =
Medical benefits of female circumcision
Mentioning some of these benefits, Dr. Haamid al-Ghawaabi says:
The secretions of the labia minora accumulate in uncircumcised women and turn rancid, so they develop an unpleasant odour which may lead to infections of the vagina or urethra. I have seen many cases of sickness caused by the lack of circumcision.
Circumcision reduces excessive sensitivity of the clitoris which may cause it to increase in size to 3 centimeters when aroused, which is very annoying to the husband, especially at the time of intercourse.
Another benefit of circumcision is that it prevents stimulation of the clitoris which makes it grow large in such a manner that it causes pain.
Circumcision prevents spasms of the clitoris which are a kind of inflammation.
Circumcision reduces excessive sexual desire.
Then Dr al-Ghawaabi refutes those who claim that female circumcision leads to frigidity by noting:
Frigidity has many causes, and this claim is not based on any sound statistics comparing circumcised women with uncircumcised women, except in the case of Pharaonic circumcision which is where the clitoris is excised completely. This does in fact lead to frigidity but it is contrary to the kind of circumcision enjoined by the Prophet of mercy (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) when he said: "Do not destroy" ie, do not uproot or excise. This alone is evidence that speaks for itself, because medicine at that time knew very little about this sensitive organ (the clitoris) and its nerves.
From Liwa 'al-Islam magazine, issue 8 and 10; article entitled Khitaan al-Banaat (circumcision of girls).
The female gynaecologist Sitt al-Banaat Khaalid says in an article entitled Khitaan al-Banaat Ru'yah Sihhiyyah (Female circumcision from a health point of view):
For us in the Muslim world female circumcision is, above all else, obedience to Islam, which means acting in accordance with the fitrah and following the Sunnah which encourages it. We all know the dimensions of Islam, and that everything in it must be good in all aspects, including health aspects. If the benefits are not apparent now, they will become known in the future, as has happened with regard to male circumcision - the world now knows its benefits and it has become widespread among all nations despite the opposition of some groups.
Then she mentioned some of the health benefits of female circumcision and said:
It takes away excessive libido from women
It prevents unpleasant odours which result from foul secretions beneath the prepuce.
It reduces the incidence of urinary tract infections
It reduces the incidence of infections of the reproductive system.
In the book on Traditions that affect the health of women and children, which was published by the World Health Organization in 1979 it says:
With regard to the type of female circumcision which involves removal of the prepuce of the clitoris, which is similar to male circumcision, no harmful health effects have been noted.

====== And
The health benefits:

Dr. Muhammad 'Ali al-Baar (a member of the Royal College of Surgeons in the UK and a consultant to the Islamic Medicine department of the King Fahd Centre for Medical Research in the King Abdul Aziz University in Jeddah) says in his book al-Khitaan (Circumcision):

"Circumcision of newborn boys (ie, within the first month of life) brings numerous health benefits, including:
1 - Protection against local infection in the penis, which may result from the presence of the foreskin, causing tightening of the foreskin, which may lead to retention of urine or infections of the glans (tip) of the penis - which require circumcision in order to treat these problems. In chronic cases, the child may be exposed to numerous diseases in the future, the most serious of which is cancer of the penis.
2 - Infections of the urethra. Many studies have proven that uncircumcised boys are more exposed to infection of the urethra. In some studies the rate was 39 times more among uncircumcised boys. In other studies the rate was ten times more. Other studies showed that 95% of children who suffered from infections of the urethra were uncircumcised, whereas the rate among circumcised children did not exceed 5%.
In children, infection of the urethra is serious in some cases. In the study by Wisewell on 88 children who suffered infections of the urethra, in 36% of them, the same bacteria was found in the blood also. Three of them contracted meningitis, and two suffered renal failure. Two others died as a result of the spread of the micro-organisms throughout the body.
3 - Protection against cancer of the penis: the studies agree that cancer of the penis is almost non-existent among circumcised men, whereas the rate among uncircumcised men is not insignificant. In the US the rate of penile cancer among circumcised men is zero, whilst among uncircumcised men it is 2.2 in every 100,000 of the uncircumcised population. As most of the inhabitants of the US are circumcised, the cases of this cancer there are between 750 and 1000 per year. If the population were not circumcised, the number of cases would reach 3000. In countries where boys are not circumcised, such as China, Uganda and Puerto Rico, penile cancer represents between 12-22% of all cancers found in men; this is a very high percentage.
4 - Sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). Researchers found that the STDs which are transmitted via sexual contact (usually because of fornication / adultery and homosexuality) spread more among those who are not circumcised, especially herpes, soft chancres, syphilis, candida, gonorrhea and genital warts.
There are numerous modern studies which confirm that circumcision reduces the possibility of contracting AIDS when compared to their uncircumcised counterparts. But that does not rule out the possibility of a circumcised man contracting AIDS as the result of sexual contact with a person who has AIDS. Circumcision is not a protection against it, and there is no real way of protecting oneself against the many sexually transmitted diseases apart from avoiding fornication / adultery, promiscuity, homosexuality and other repugnant practices. (From this we can see the wisdom of Islamic sharee'ah in forbidding fornication / adultery and homosexuality).
5 - Protection of wives against cervical cancer. Researchers have noted that the wives of circumcised men have less risk of getting cervical cancer than the wives of uncircumcised men.
From al-Khitaan, p. 76, by Dr. Muhammad al-Baar.
And Allaah knows best.
Reference: Professor Wisewell, published in the American Family Doctor Magazine, issue no. 41, 1991 CE.




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The punishment of Stoning for those who commit adultery is very cruel
Response
According to the Islamic Law (Shariah) in case of adultery (extramarital relationship), the adulterer and the adulteress will be stoned to death by the decree of the Court. However, if virgins commit fornication then the punishment is 100 lashes.
However, before any punishment is carried out, Islam requires that the evidence is conclusively established. Adultery and fornication have to be proven by four eyewitnesses who have seen the actual sexual intercourse or by the confession of the delinquents themselves. Pregnancy is not enough evidence. All Muslim Scholars (except Malik only) do not recognized pregnancy as enough evidence to carry out the punishment (100 lashes or stoning) because the woman might have been raped. Therefore if the woman claims to be raped, she will not be punished.
If a person accuses a woman or a man of committing illegal sexual intercourse, then the accuser has to bring four eyewitnesses who have seen the actual sexual intercourse. If not, the accuser will receive eighty lashes and his testimony will be rejected forever:
And those who accuse chaste women, and produce not four witnesses, FLOG THEM (THE ACCUSERS) WITH EIGHTY STRIPES AND REJECT THEIR TESTIMONY FOREVER. (Quran, 24:4)
Verily, those who accuse chaste, believing women, who never even think of anything touching their chastity, are cursed in this life and in the Hereafter, and for them will be great torment. (Quran, 24:23)
The punishment for adultery and fornication is intended to deter from committing these ugly shameful deeds. This punishment is for jeopardizing the whole community as adultery spreads diseases, destroys the family, and harms the individual and the entire society.
It should be emphasized that, the Bible also commands the killing of the adulterer and the adulteress. Therefore, criticizing this punishment implies criticizing the Bible, and this should not be acceptable to any true Jew or Christian!
According to the judgment of the Bible, if a man accuses his wife of not being a virgin, the wife's father and mother have to bring proof that she was a virgin, otherwise, the wife will be STONED TO DEATH! THE WIFE'S TESTIMONY CARRIES NO WEIGHT! :
If a man takes a wife and, after lying with her, dislikes her and slanders her and gives her a bad name, saying, "I married this woman, but when I approached her, I DID NOT FIND PROOF OF HER VIRGINITY," then the GIRL'S FATHER AND MOTHER SHALL BRING PROOF that she was a virgin to the town elders at the gate ... Then her parents shall DISPLAY THE CLOTH before the elders of the town ... If, however, the charge is true and no proof of the girl's virginity can be found, she shall be brought to the door of her father's house and there the men of her town SHALL STONE HER TO DEATH ... (Deuteronomy 22:13-21)
The following is for those who do not believe in the Bible and the Quran:
According to the United Nations, AIDS will kill 70 million people over the next 20 years, unless efforts are made to curb the disease!
More than 40 million people worldwide have AIDS or are infected with HIV, the virus that causes the disease, up from 34 million two years ago, and infection rates are climbing, said the latest report from UNAIDS, the agency that coordinates UN AIDS programs.
AIDS threatens to wipe out a generation in Africa and destabilize the whole continent, warns the report!
AIDS killed a record 3 million people last year - 2.2 MILLION IN AFRICA ALONE - and HIV infected another 5 million worldwide. The disease, which has killed 20 million since its discovery in 1981, has so far created 14 million orphans. Three million of the 40 million people now infected are children under 15 years of age. The world must spend $ 7 billion to $ 10 billion a year by 2005 to tackle AIDS!
· Furthermore, in the United States, MORE THAN 65 MILLION PEOPLE are currently living with an incurable sexually transmitted disease (STD).
http://www.cdc.gov/nchstp/od/news/RevBrochure1pdfintro.htm
These dreadful consequences of promiscuous sexual relationships and deviant sexual practices were foretold by Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) about 1400 years ago. The Prophet, peace and blessings of God be upon him, said,
"If lewdness exists among people and then appears as a common and open practice, plagues and new diseases which did not exist before will spread among them." [Ibn Maajah, Al-Hakim]
It is really shocking that the Western people think that it is unfair to kill the person who commits adultery, while they believe that innocent child born of adultery can be killed (aborted)
And consequently over HALF A MILLION TEENAGERS a year in America, choose to murder (or abort) their children.
These unfortunate children are killed in the wombs of their mothers and their mutilated corpses are discarded like garbage.
About 1.3 million abortions take place in America every year. From 1973 through 1996, more than 34 million legal abortions occurred in America!! 34 MILLION INNOCENT CHILDREN WERE KILLED TO SATISFY WESTERN SEXUAL MANIA!!!
It is really astonishing that these children are killed for the adultery committed by their parents. ISN'T THIS THE HEIGHT OF INHUMANITY AND HARSHNESS!
"They are losers who have killed their children foolishly, without knowledge ...
They have indeed gone astray and were not guided. "(Quran 6:140)
Do they kill them because they cannot defend themselves and cannot talk, then on the Day of Judgment they will talk and complain to God!
That is your democracy!! Since the fetus cannot talk and defend itself you kill it. How barbaric!!!
Western Democracy is two wolves and a lamb voting on what to have for lunch.
Western Democracy is two human wolves and a fetus of their adultery voting on who should be killed for committing this sin!!!
• A survey by the National Opinion Research Center (University of Chicago) found that 25 percent of men had been unfaithful. (Joannie Schrof, "Adultery in America," US News and World Report, 31 Aug. 1998, 31.)
• An article in a 1997 issue of Newsweek magazine noted that various surveys suggest that as many as 30 percent of male Protestant ministers have had sexual relationships with women other than their wives. (Kenneth Woodward, "Sex, Morality and the Protestant Minister," Newsweek (28 July 1997), 62.
Some of those who oppose stoning are wicked people who want to exploit women, yet with no guarantees, no rights or security, financial or emotional. They want women to be like unpaid prostitutes to serve them as girlfriends. And should they become pregnant, it is their burden alone and they will have to choose whether to struggle with the responsibility for the upbringing of these illegitimate children or to have an abortion. In these permissive societies the woman is regarded as no more than a sex object and a commodity to be used for public consumption.
If this Islamic Law is applied and one or two adulterers or adulteresses are killed, it will deter these wicked people and millions of other people men and women from committing adultery. Therefore, it will deter them from exploiting women because if they are caught, they will be stoned to death. Furthermore, it will deter women from committing adultery with these wicked people and consequently it will be very difficult for these wicked people to find prostitutes or women who are willing to commit adultery.
Conclusion
In severe cases of Gangrene, doctors decide to amputate the affected part of the body to rescue the rest of the body. Is this unjust or harsh!
No!
Because the amputation of the affected part of the body is less harmful than leaving the whole body to die!
Likewise, the death of the person who commits adultery is less harmful than the terrible consequences of the spread of adultery which were explained above
In Botswana, 39 percent of adults are infected with HIV or AIDS. Because of AIDS, life expectancy in Botswana has dropped below 40.
Suppose the Islamic Law is implemented in these countries. Every woman wears the Islamic hijab and men and women do not mix freely! After this if any one commits adultery, they get capital punishment, and suppose that only 2 or 3 adulterers or adulteresses are killed publicly. The question is, will AIDS and Other STDs increase, will they remain the same or will they decrease? Without doubt they will decrease dramatically and consequently millions of innocent lives will be saved. Islamic Law gets results. Islam has Practical Solutions for the Problems of Mankind. Perhaps these people oppose stoning because they want to get rid of the whole population of Africa. Maybe they want the curse of AIDS to wipe out all those helpless Africans
Islam is the best way of life because its teachings are not just pieces of advice but practical solutions for the problems of humans. Islamic teachings achieve fruitful results. Islam managed to minimize such evils.
When we consider all the facts, the greatness and wisdom of God's Law appear
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For honor of wife:
As a Wife:
(1) Marriage in Islam is based on mutual peace, love, and compassion, and not just the mere satisfying of human sexual desire. Among the most impressive verses in the Quran about marriage is the following:

"And of His signs is: that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought. "(Quran 30:21, see also 42:11 and 2:228)

(2) The female has the right to accept or reject marriage proposals. According to the Islamic Law, women cannot be forced to marry anyone without their consent.

(3) The husband is responsible for the maintenance, protection, and overall leadership of the family, within the framework of consultation (see the Quran 2:233) and kindness (see the Quran 4:19). The mutuality and complementary nature of the role of husband and wife does not mean subservience by either party to the other. The Prophet Muhammad instructed Muslims regarding women: "I commend you to be good to women." And "The best among you are those who are best to their wives." The Quran urges husbands to be kind and considerate to their wives, even if a wife falls out of favor with her husband or disinclination for her arises within him:

"... And live with them in kindness. For if you dislike them, perhaps you dislike a thing and God makes therein much good. "(Quran 4:19)

It also outlawed the Arabian practice before Islam whereby the stepson of the deceased father was allowed to take possession of his father's widow (s) (inherit them) as if they were part of the estate of the deceased (see the Quran 4:19) .

(4) Should marital disputes arise, the Quran encourages couples to resolve them privately in a spirit of fairness and goodness. Indeed, the Quran outlines an enlightened step and wise approach for the husband and wife to resolve persistent conflict in their marital life. In the event that dispute cannot be resolved equitably between husband and wife, the Quran prescribes mediation between the parties through family intervention on behalf of both spouses (see the Quran 4:35).

(5) Divorce is a last resort, permissible but not encouraged, for the Quran esteems the preservation of faith and the individual's right-male and female alike-to felicity. Forms of marriage dissolution include an enactment based upon mutual agreement, the husband's initiative, the wife's initiative (if part of her marital contract), the court's decision on a wife's initiative (for a legitimate reason), and the wife's initiative without a cause, provided that she returns her marital gift to her husband. When the continuation of the marriage relationship is impossible for any reason, men are still taught to seek a gracious end for it. The Quran states about such cases:

"And when you divorce women and they have fulfilled their term (ie waiting period), either keep them in kindness or release them in kindness, and do not keep them, intending harm, to transgress (against them)." (Quran 2: 231, see also 2:229 and 33:49)

(6) Associating polygyny with Islam, as if it was introduced by it or is the norm according to its teachings, is one of the most persistent myths perpetuated in Western literature and media. Polygyny existed in almost all nations and was even sanctioned by Judaism and Christianity until recent centuries. Islam did not outlaw polygyny, as did many peoples and religious communities; rather, it regulated and restricted it. It is not required but simply permitted with conditions (see the Quran 4:3). Spirit of law, including timing of revelation, is to deal with individual and collective contingencies that may arise from time to time (eg imbalances between the number of males and females created by wars) and to provide a moral, practical, and humane solution for the problems of widows and orphans.

Peace be upon you my sister

و لكن للاسف هى دائما تلقى الشبهات و هرسل تعليقها على

ردها هو الاول و الثانى عضو اخر :
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FEMALE CIRCUMCISION -- There is so much error in what you posted here I hardly know where to begin. For one thing, any "health benefits" imagined about female circumcision are just that -- imagined. A stimulated clitoris is never "painful" no matter how big it gets. Quite the contrary. It can be an instrument of immense pleasure which, I suspect, is Islam's true objection to it (why should sex be any fun for women?) Anyway, it never grows big enough to "annoy" anybody's husband. Just ask the American, European, Asian, and Latino husbands about that. As for any "rancid" odors, daily bathing and good personal hygiene are the key. Of course if you want to talk about "rancid" odors, semen is about the most rancid, foul-smelling substance I've ever encountered. So what's the cure for that?

STONING -- Execution has never been a reliable deterrent to criminal or immoral activity. If people want to do something, they're going to do it regardless of the consequences. And I suspect the Muslim world has as much promiscuity as the Western world but is much better at hiding it.

MARRIAGE -- Here I don't see anything remarkable. Western marriages have most of what you posted here (e.g. clergy, marriage counselors, divorce lawyers, and laws concerning "community property") with the exception of polygyny.

Peace to you also.

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riglin wrote today at 4:16 AM
It all boils down to pointing at the Creator's mistakes in his creations. Now every believers needs to circumcise. You just added this thought to my mind and strengthen my acknowledgment that a Creator does not exist.

Muslims still caught for committing adultery are very ignorant of their own religion. There are so many 'religious ways' to do it. It's so easy to divorce a wife by saying 'talak' 3 times, or marry up to another three more. Then there is nikah al-mut'ah (temporary marriage) which can last a little as one hour and there are no requirements of having a witness, a written contract or permission from authorities.

I've learned all this from ex-Muslims at http://anonymouse.org/cgi-bin/anon-www.cgi/http://www.faithfreedom.org




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riglin wrote today at 5:56 AM
Eyearing,

The punishment of stoning for those who commit adultery does not justify anything accept promoting violence.

http://anonymouse.org/cgi-bin/anon-www.cgi/http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/worldnews/article-1235763/Pictured-Islamic-militants-stone-man-death-adultery-Somalia-villagers-forced-watch.html#ixzz0Zy70oQQX

""If lewdness exists among people and then appears as a common and open practice, plagues and new diseases which did not exist before will spread among them." [Ibn Maajah, Al-Hakim]"

That's a lame statement. What about plagues and new diseases which have no connection with sex? Looks like the Creator is having fun by creating new diseases of any kind through out the times. What is the fun for creating cancer that affects everyone? Isn't there Judgment Day for the believers?

أختي الكريمة، لم اقرأ الرد.
لماذا تضيعين وقتا مع من يقول بأنه لن يقتنع بالإسلام مهما رددت؟
هذه مضيعة وقت، وفي الوقت نفسه، كيف تقبلين أن ترسل لك عددا كبيرا من الشبهات، قولي لها "تريدين الحوار أم الشتائم" ستقول الحوار، قولي لها "لنضع قواعد للحوار" وتختاران ما تشائان، وإذا اختارت الشتائم فقولي لها ديننا ليس دين شتائم.
الأمر الأول الذي يجب أن تعرفه هذه البوذية إن كانت هندية أن العري منتشر في الهند قبل مجيء الإسلام، فلما انتشر فيها على يد المغول أصبح البوذيون أنفسهم يغطون نساءهم اقتداء بالمسلمين، هذا إن كانت هندية.
اسأليها قبل أن تتكلم عن تعاليم الإسلام أن تعرض دينها عليك وسترين العجب، وسترين وساخة دينهم.

من ألزم باللباس الأسود؟ من أين اتت هي بقصة اللباس الأسود وأن المسلمات ملزمات به؟
ثم هل هي قضية الدعارة، يعني هي ترفض أن تُعاقب المرأة بالرجم بسبب الزنا، هل هذا يعني أنها تمارس الدعارة مع كل رجل؟ أم هي تمارس الجنس مع شخص آخر؟
طيب إذا كانت ترى أن ممارسة الجنس حق إنساني، فلماذا الزواج إذا؟ لماذا يحدث الزواج بينهم؟
من قال أن المرأة إذا خرجت من منزلها يجب عليها أن تخرج بمحرم؟
أما القول بأن المسلم تُقتل من قبل زوجها، فالصحيح هو العكس، الشيوعية هي التي حمت الصين من أن تُقتل فيها النساء، وأما الهند فقتل الرجال للنساء فيها مشهور ومشهود، أما المسلمين فلا يقتل الرجل امرأته، ولكن القصاص على القاتل.

الإسلام هو الدين الوحيد الذي جعل المرأة ذات نفقة دائمة من أقرب رجل ذكر لها، وإذا لم يوجد وجب على الدولة أن تنفق عليها، وبلدان المسلمين الغنية كالكويت وقطر والامارات والسعودية جعلت نفقات خاصة للمطلقات، لدينا في الامارات الدولة تعطيها الحق بملكية منزل وتوفر لها سبل الحياة السعيدة، فلتقم هذه البوذية بزيارة البوذيين في بلدانهم لترى أي فقر وصلوا إليه، وأي حاجة وصلت لها المرأة أن تبيع عرضها لأجل الحصول على لقمة العيش.

هذه امرأة جاحدة ولا تريد حوارا، والهداية بيد المولى عز وجل.

أيا كان، اعتقد لا ينبغي لمسلم عاقل أن يبقى يتلقى القذائف وهو يصد، إذا لم ترغب في حوار متزن فدعيها، ولا تردي عليها، وإذا رأيتي أنها تطرح ردودا عليك فلا تردي عليها البتة حتى تعرف قيمتها الحقيقية وأنها أرخص من أن يُعتنى بالرد عليها، وابقي مع المنصفين الذين يسمعون لك ويحاورونك، كل ما نقلته أكاذيب لا علاقة لها بالاسلام، لكن يجب أن يعرف الناس الذين حولك في ذلك الموقع انك لا تشغلين بالك بالاكاذيب إلا للمرة الأولى، يعني إذا العضو وضع أكاذيب وفندتيها واثبتي انها أكاذيب وبقي مصرا عليها فاعتذري بأنك لا تردين على من ينقل الأكاذيب ولا تضيعين وقتك معه.
اجعلي الحجة عليك دوما كتاب الله وسنة نبيه صلى الله عليه وسلم الصحيحة.
وبالمناسبة، من السوء بمكان أن تناقشين أكثر من صاحب ديانة في موقع واحد.

الدكتور زاكر نايك من خيرة من يعرف التعامل مع اصحاب الديانات الآسيوية، البوذية والسيخية والهندوسية والزرادشتية

على هذا الرابط، يزعم الشيخ زاكر وجود نبوءة محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم في كتب البوذية:
http://www.irf.net/index.php?option=...199&Itemid=142

وهذه محاضرة له عن حقوق المرأة:
http://www.uctis.za.org/html/women_s_rights.html

وتضمنت أسألة مهمة رد عليها الشيخ مثل:
1- الرجل له الحور العين فماذا للمرأة؟
2- لماذا اباح الاسلام التعدد؟
3- هل الإسلام ساوى بين حقوق المرأة وحقوق الرجل؟
4- لماذا أباح الإسلام للمسلم الزواج بالكتابية ولم يسمح به للمسلمة؟
5- لماذا لا يوجد في الإسلام نبية؟
6- حول الاختلاط.
7- هل يجوز للمرأة أن تعمل مضيفة طيران؟
8- الرجل فقط بيده الطلاق بالثلاث، لماذا؟

وكثير من التساؤلات التي يجب بها الشيخ بعقلانية فريدة.

أحسنت أخي الحبيب منشيم

ونتعجب والله يا أختنا الكريمة ... يعني هذه الوقحة تقول لا ولن أقتنع ..و القت بالشبهات .. مما يعني المغالطة بالغصب و رفض الدليل .. والمكاتبرة على الحق , فلما الحوار إذاً .. إن لن يفيد أي استدلال معها .. فما الحاجة للحوار؟!!!

اسألي نفسَك لما الحوار ؟!... للأنتصار للرأي , أم لاثبات أنك تستطيعين الردوزإظهار الفضل ؟!!.. أم للدعوة إلى الله وإظهار الحق؟!!

امراة تلقي بالشبهات وبقلة أدب , وتقول لا ولن أقتنع .. إذاً فالحوار منتهي معها يا أستاذة.. ووجهي جهدك ودعوتكِ إلى من يستمع لك ويناقش ويحاور بلا قفز على نتائِج وإغلاق للآذان .. ثم من أدراك أنها بوذية؟!!.. لما لا تكون مسيحية وحتى تغلق امامك باب المقارنة تتظاهر بأنها بوذية؟!.. وأكثر من حاورتهم او حاورتهن من الغرب يفعل هذا.

بارك الله فيك يا دكتور أمير
ولذلك قلت للأخت أن لا تدخل حوارا فيه أكثر من صاحب دين
اذا قلت للنصراني هذه حجة عليك قال لك الملحد (وليست حجة علي)
واذا قلت للملحد (هذه حجة عليك) قال لك البوذي (وليست حجة علي)
فيضيع المسلم في حوار أمثال هؤلاء.

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم
اولا
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته

اختي انا مسلمه المقطع الاول ..من الحوار الانجليزي هذا ترجمته

إذا كان الإسلام "شرف" المرأة ، وأتباعه قد تأكد بشكل مضحك لإظهار ذلك. الذي يريد أن تكون ملفوفة في قطعة قماش سوداء ياردة من انهم بالكاد يمكن رؤية من أصل 100 في درجة الحرارة؟ الذي يريد أن يكون مخصي حتى انهم لا يستطيعون التمتع بالجنس؟ الذي يريد أن يكون إطلاق النار من أجل الذهاب إلى المدرسة أو الرجم حتى الموت للنوم مع رجل أنها ليست متزوجة؟ الذي يريد جر أحد الأقارب الذكور معهم في كل مرة يخرجون من المنزل لرغيف الخبز؟ الذي يريد أن يكون قتل أو تعرض للضرب على أيدي أزواجهن؟ الذي يريد أن يكون على التسول في الشوارع من أجل لقمة العيش بعد وفاة أزواجهن و لم تعد قادرة على تقديم الدعم لهم؟ الذي؟ بالتأكيد ليست لي ، أو الملايين من النساء في الدول الغربية الأخرى من أمثالي الذين يرون الثقافة الإسلامية في منطقة الشرق الأوسط باعتبارها ممارسة في شوفينية الذكور.

طبعا أنا أدرك أن في بعض البلدان ، كما هو الحال في الولايات المتحدة وإيران ، ويمكن للمرأة أن تفلت من العقاب فقط ترتدي حجابا (بدلا من البرقع الكامل) لكنه لا يزال يعتمل حواسي مجرد معرفة الحجاب إلزامي والتي ما زالت المرأة المسلمة الجلوس في مكان منفصل في المسجد


طبعاً كلام ضعيف ولا يستحق الرد
وأنا لا يشرفني أن أدعو مثل هذه البوذيه الى الاسلام...لاني تعاملت كثيراً مع هذه الشخصيات
هذه واحده من الف الذين طمس الله على قلوبهم

اذا كانت هي تريد جسد المرأه مكشوفاً متلاعباً به كسلعه للبيع ودعايات
وإثارة شهوات الرجال .....وتريد أن يزداد الزنا وحالات الاغتصاب أعاذ الله بناتنا وبناتكم
هذه البوذيه لو عندها حياء كانت سترت نفسها عن أعين الرجال ...وإنها لتحزن إن تحرش بها أحد
لكن الحماقة أعيت من يداويها

الترجمة الدقيقة لهذه الفقرة:
إذا كان الإسلام يحترم المرأة، فإن اتباعه يعرضون ذلك بطرق طريفة. من تريد أن تكون ملفوفة في ياردات من القطن الأسود بحيث لا يُرى منها شيء في درجة حرارة 100 مؤية، من يريد أن يكون مخصيا فلا يتمتع بالجنس؟ من يريد أن يرمى (بالرصاص) لذهابه للمدرسة أو يرجم حتى الموت لأنها (لأنها) تنام مع رجل وهم غير متزوجون؟ من تريد أن تسحب أحد أقاربها الرجال في كل مرة تذهب خارج المنزل لتشتري الخبز؟ من تريد أن تُضرب أو تُقتل بواسطة زوجها؟ من تريد أن تتوسل في الشوارع لحياة بعد موت زوجها وليس لديهن من ينفق عليهن (تقصد الزوجات الأربع)، ليس فقط أنا، ولا ملاين النساء في الغرب يشاهدن حضارة المسلمين ممارسة تحت تسلط الرجل.

واجد أنها تنبع من نفسية مريضة.

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السلام عليكم
اوضحنم لنا جميعا ما معنى الحوار الخلاق الهادف مع هؤلاء سواء اقتنعوا ام زادوا عندا فهذا معناه ان الله طمس على قلوبهم
لكنى احى الاخت لارادتها ومثابرتها وننصحها كما انصح نفسى بعدم الاستمرار مع اناس يريدون السب والشتائم
عفانا الله جميعا من الاساءات لاسلامنا شـكــ وبارك الله فيك ـــرا لك ... لك مني أجمل تحية . موفق بإذن الله ... لك مني أجمل تحية .
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لا ادري لماذا ينتابني احساس ان البوذية ماهي الا وفاء سلطان او ربما صديقتها المتأثره بها وبنفسيتها المريضة !